How much trust do you need?
Have you ever been on a blind date? The idea is that some friend sets you up with some other friend thinking that the two of you will hit it off. Now imagine a website dedicated to setting up total strangers for blind dates. Sound unlikely? Nope, there really is such a site: CrazyBlindDate.com.
I read about CrazyBlindDate in the May 2008 issue of Inc. The founders of CrazyBlindDate started off with another dating service site, OkCupid.com. These guys managed to raise a whopping seven million dollars to start their company which provides its services for free. The overall strategy, however, is to make money via ad revenue. The only way that the ad revenue model will work is by driving massive traffic. For a while, OkCupid wasn’t delivering. A new, hot marketing strategy was needed. Enter, therefore, CrazyBlindDate.
There’s a problem, though. For a guy, a blind date may not be a big deal. For a woman, however, there is a significant risk. Think icky words like stalking or rape. That means that there’s got to be a lot of trust to bridge that risk. Given my interest in marketing as know-like-trust on the way to some action, I was curious to learn how CrazyBlindDate was creating enough trust to be effective.
If you look at CrazyBlindDate’s home page, it shows pictures of city skylines which seems a bit impersonal. And then there’s the text: “…on very short notice we can set you up on quick dates with total strangers at public places like bars and coffee shops. You're not allowed to see their picture or even communicate.” Uh…no. Their target market is described as people who are “social, outgoing, and adventurous.” The words that came to mind for me included “stupid, desperate, psycho.” The word reckless also showed up somewhere. Their “Successes” page shows blurry photos and lists nothing but cities--no comments, nothing--just that they rated their dates as “Great.” According to their FAQ, saying yes to a date is a commitment to 20 minutes in a public place with a total stranger and that the dates are “safe.” From their terms of use, CrazyBlindDate says that anyone using their service agrees not to stalk, intimidate, etc. however that info is buried deep in the small print.
The site is noticeably low on information that allows people to know more. If you’re not already into the idea of a “crazy blind date” set up at random by an impersonal web site, I wonder what you’d find that would lead to like. And trust--well, there is almost no effort made to establish any.
So is CrazyBlindDate successful? It depends on how you define success. The idea was that CrazyBlindDate was going to boost revenue at its sister site, OkCupid. To some degree, the gamble has worked. According the report in Inc., OkCupid passed the $1 million mark last year.
I’m not in CrazyBlindDate’s target market but if a friend of mine suggested she was thinking about using this service, I’d do my best to try to talk her out of it. The reason that the old fashion sort of blind date works is because of trust. Trust in the friend doing the setting up is essential. She’d never put you together with a total goober, right? What CrazyBlindDate is doing is asking people to trust in them without doing any of the real homework to create that trust. They even hide their own identities on their staff page with the same blurry photos they use in their user profiles.
In the end, CrazyBlindDate is a marketing strategy for another site also requiring trust which does a slightly better job of seeming aboveboard and trust worthy. Only time will tell whether the strategy will yield more profit than publicity.


